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I have a friend whose mother became a lesbian after his father passed away. He now lives in a house with two ladies, and he calls this second mom of his his "aunt". Imagine how awkward that must have been at first to have a new lady in the house, in a relationship with your mother, who you refer to as an aunt. I have been friends with this guy for a while, and it is easy to see how he has changed from when he had a mother and father to having two mothers.

Children with either two moms or two dads will undoubtedly be harassed in school, lowering their self-esteem and level of trust in others. Young kids will be ashamed of their family being so much different than others. Not only does it increase the chances of children getting bullied, but it decreases the chance of them getting raised properly. It is important for a child to have a mother and father figure in his/her life. If a lady has to take charge of the fatherly role, or vice versa, there will be a greater chance of that child growing up with flawed morals and values. A boy with two moms might have little or no respect for women. A girl with two dads might despise males. Nothing good can come out of a child having two parents of the same sex

Keep Kids Out of Their Hands

Adoption is the solution for having children when a couple physically cannot. For a straight couple, there is a much greater chance an adopted child would be treated the same as a biological child would be. But how can a gay couple, which is incapable of having children, be expected to treat a child properly? I will admit, me being a homophobe does play into my opinions on gay adoption. I just think it is better off for gay couples to not possess children of their own. We do not know what their thought processes are, for there is no doubt they are "different" from the straight population. It would be especially dangerous, lets say, if a lesbian couple adopted a female child. First off, since it is not a biological child of either woman the trust factor immediately diminishes, as it does with any adopted child, regardless of who its parents are. However, if I was that girl, I'd be more scared growing of up my parents abusing me physically if they were lesbian, as oppose to having a mother and father.

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